I like dressing up as a bear during sex
Guys? If you go to a foreign land, and you're looking for advice on introducing a date to your furry tendencies, avoid asking media sex columnists. They're not likely to know much more than you, but they'll do their best to make up some advice anyway.
(They may just have made the questioner up, of course. I like to think the Times is better than that.)
Edit: I asked, they claimed it was a real letter, but admitted to altering the character and location to protect the sender's identity.